Torin's angling for his wish to happen
Fishing fanatic Torin was only days away from casting his line in Tasmania. But COVID-19 restrictions put a halt temporarily to his wish.
*Image courtesy of Nicole Cleary / NewsCorp
Torin was so close to going on his fishing wish in Tasmania that he could almost feel the fish nibbling at his line.
The 13 year old’s trip was called off at the eleventh hour because of COVID-19. Torin’s bags were packed, and excitement was written all over his face.
“He was just so sad. He wasn’t angry, he just sat there and wept,” mum Beth said.
“I told him the week we bought the tickets and now I wish I had of held off telling him.”
Severely disabled, Torin found it hard to understand why the trip had to be postponed. The only way Beth could explain it was to say the plane was broken.
“I told him it would happen one day but he doesn’t quite get it,” Beth said.
“I said the plane will get fixed one day.
“This morning at 5am, he was prodding me in bed, and I looked at him and he was saying ‘aeroplane … can I go on the aeroplane today’. He asks about it a lot.”
Torin’s challenging medical journey started before he was even born.
Beth contracted cytomegalovirus (CMV) while Torin was in utero.
The CMV then led to a brain disorder known as polymicrogyria (PMG).
What it meant was that Torin was born deaf, cannot speak, has cerebral palsy, autism and can only use his left arm.
“It was only at 11 months when we started putting it all together,” Beth said.
“We were searching for that whole year, so when I got the CMV diagnosis I was relieved not because I could do something, it was just that I knew what was wrong.
“The PMV diagnosis was devastating; you don’t want to put that into Google. Basically, the brain was not developed properly because CMV interrupted it.”
Beth said the diagnosis came the day before the Good Friday Appeal in 2007.
“All during the appeal, I was crying,” she said. “I thought ‘goodness; this is my world now. In a heartbeat, this is now my world’,” she said.
“Every Good Friday Appeal makes me think of the diagnosis.
“We know he won’t live forever, and we are fully okay with that but, yeah, it pulls at your heartstrings when you think about it.”
Torin loves to clown around and play pranks. Beth said watching his prank unfold he laughs and lets out an infectious cackle.
“He will steal your phone, and he thinks it’s hilarious,” Beth said. “It’ll turn into a scavenger hunt and he’s sitting there saying ‘no, not in there’, and his laughter fills the room.”
Apart from pranks, Torin loves planes and fishing. When he sees planes in the sky, he stares at them.
He has a fish tank in his bedroom and loves watching big fishing videos on YouTube.
When the local Make-A-Wish volunteers visited Torin, he told them through a speech device the words “plane, fish and big boat”.
So the wheels were put in motion for his Tasmanian fishing trip with his family, which includes four siblings.
Wishes are waiting
As COVID-19 put the brakes on Torin’s Tasmanian trip, the Make-A-Wish community began focussing on how to keep Torin engaged.
They reached out to Robbie Alexander, a renowned fishing YouTuber and Make-A-Wish volunteer. Robbie knew he could help and got straight to work creating a special surprise for Torin.
Robbie made a video for Torin reassuring him his wish will eventually come true.
Beth said the video had lifted her son’s spirits.
“I just showed Torin the video, and he was rapt. He was AMAZED he kept using his name. So cute. Such a beautiful gesture”.
Beth said Torin would like to catch a big fish but would still be happy with “a little pufferfish”.
“I am excited for him,” she said.
“Especially during this isolation how hard it’s been for him, he needs to get out and live some life at the moment because he’s really struggling,
“Make-A-Wish has just gone above and beyond. When this happens, I’ll be indebted to them forever. It certainly wouldn’t have happened without them.”
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Make-A-Wish has just gone above and beyond. When this (wish) happens, I’ll be indebted to them forever.Beth Torin's mum
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