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Pink wish lives long for Jordy
Eleven years after she had a liver transplant, teenager Jordy wants to be there to help kids going through their own cancer journeys.
Background
Ink memories
There are little reminders etched in ink over 19-year-old Jordy’s body. Reminders of a time long ago, as a 7-year-old, when she was diagnosed with cancer. The medical journey which followed ultimately led to Jordy needing a liver transplant.
The tattoos include a cancer ribbon behind her ear and three birds on her collarbone. Her mum Jaye used to be filled with hope whenever she saw a flock of birds during Jordy’s treatment.
On Jordy’s arm is a tattoo of a robin. Robyn was Jordy’s nurse in Melbourne during her liver transplant.
Robyn would sit down and talk to Jordy, helping to make her feel more at ease and less consumed with her transplant.
Treatment
Diagnosis shakes family's world
Jordy remembers doing calisthenics as a young girl and feeling a lot of pain. Her GP sent her to the hospital, where tests revealed a stage 4 cancerous tumour in her liver had spread to her lungs.
“For me, because I was so young, I didn’t get it,” Jordy said. “It must have been so scary for my parents to watch their 7-year-old child be so sick.”
Mum Jaye was by herself when doctors told her the bad news.
“I remember the day; I’ll never forget it,” she said. “I still wake up at night in sweats sometimes about that day.
“The doctor told me it was a tumour, and it’s stage 4, and I thought ‘okay four, so it must be out of 10, so that’s not too bad’. I had no idea at that point that four was the worst stage.”
When intensive chemotherapy was unsuccessful, Jordy flew from her Adelaide home to Melbourne to get a new liver. Her eighth birthday was only a few days before her transplant.
“I remember the trip to Melbourne was pretty scary,” Jordy said.
“I was very sick at that point. Even just to fly was scary as my body wasn’t functioning the way it should have been.”
Lasting effects
Needing 48 meds every two hours
Jordy returned to Adelaide with the hope life would become more normal. With her were 48 medications to be taken every two hours. She didn’t leave the house for three months as she adjusted to her new liver.
Her confidence was also affected, worried as she grew older about crowded places and getting sick again.
“As I have got older, it has taken a much bigger toll on my life,” Jordy said.
“Having cancer and being in the hospital, you never know if it will come back, so you don’t want to do anything to increase the chances of it returning.
“Having a liver transplant, I can’t have as much fun as everybody else my age; that’s one of the biggest challenges.”
Wish day
The day everything turned pink
Helping Jordy stay positive through her medical journey was Make-A-Wish Australia.
Jordy wished for a bright pink laptop and a party with friends at a cupcake shop.
“I’m a big pink person,” Jordy said.
“As well as the pink laptop, the shop was full of pink tablecloths and everything else pink. I had seven friends come, and it was the best.
“I still have the laptop. I don’t use it because it’s 11 years old, but I think I will have it forever. It’s like a light from that whole journey, and when I look at it, I think ‘that was a really good day’.”
New goal
Jordy wants to give back
The power of her wish has only grown stronger in Jordy’s mind over the years.
“I want to help someone just as Make-A-Wish helped me,” she said.
“If I can do that, I feel like I have done my part in life.”
Jordy has dabbled in raising money for various charities, but her passion is with Make-A-Wish, where she hopes to start volunteering.
“I would love to talk to kids in the hospital and make them feel like they have a friend and tell them not to give up,” Jordy said.
“It’s such a dark time, and I get it how horrible it is, but you look for a light, some positivity.
“There’s hopefully always a light at the end of the tunnel.”
Mum Jaye said it was no surprise Jordy felt strongly about ‘giving back’.
“I think her ideal job would be to work with kids who are going through the same journey she did,” Jaye said.
“Her resilience, going through what she did, was just incredible.
“She always does come out on top; bless her.”
“I would love to talk to kids in the hospital and make them feel like they have a friend and tell them not to give up.”
The Wish Journey
How a wish comes to life
1. Wish Capture
1. Wish Capture
Depending on availability, either our Make-A-Wish volunteers or our Wish Catcher team will arrange to meet each child (either in-person or virtually) to capture their greatest wish idea, getting to the heart of what they truly want and why. This is part of what makes Make-A-Wish unique, giving children full creative control while exploring their wish idea.
2. Wish Design
2. Wish Design
Back at Make-A-Wish HQ, we collaborate with families and volunteers, with support of the medical teams, to create the ultimate wish experience for each child.
3. Wish Anticipation
3. Wish Anticipation
In the lead up to the wish, we take each child on an anticipation journey designed to build excitement, keep them engaged until their wish comes true, and provide a welcome distraction from medical treatment. Anticipation can be incredibly powerful, helping to calm, distract, and inspire kids at a time they need it most.
4. Wish Realisation
4. Wish Realisation
This is when the planning, preparation, and anticipation of the wish finally comes true. Children get to experience their greatest wish – it's everything they’ve imagined and more.
5. Wish Impact
5. Wish Impact
Wish impact studies show that a child's wish lives on, long after the moment. A wish gives more than just hope – with an incredible and lasting effect on the lives of wish kids, their families, and wider communities.
